Saturday, January 13, 2007

Your Woman in Lingerie – How to Do it Right

Women love to receive sexy lingerie from their boyfriends and spouses. It can be a big turn on for them to know that you picked out something just for them that they can wear for you as a treat. When she knows what you think looks sexy, she will feel like you are opening up lines to talk about what you both want in your sex lives. Women love fantasy, and knowing yours as well. However, the prize of seeing your lover in a red nightie or black camisole, does not take away the fact that you need to figure out sizes and how to get the nerve to go into the lingerie department. Keep an open mind for a few moments and you will see that getting lingerie right does not have to be such a hassle or mystery. There are options. Before explaining, remember to keep your mind on the prize. Your woman will be very excited that you have fantasized about her in whatever you have picked. She will also feel even sexier, knowing that you know she will look good in it. With these tantalizing factors to keep in the forefront of your mind, you can do some of the following to make the experience a little easier.

Figuring out her size may be what has kept you from buying her lingerie in the first place. Do not fear. You probably have most of the answers right there in her dresser, or hopefully, on the bedroom floor. Take a quick peek at her bra size when she is in the other room. A bra size can tell a sales associate a lot about your woman’s size. Also, knowing whether she is a medium, a 12, or a petite size, can help too. If you are really concerned about sizes because she has ingrained it into your mind that nothing fits her right, then take inventory from a skirt or pair of pants, a shirt, and a bra. This will give the salesperson the exact information they need. Or, you can use these measurements yourself to pick out something sexy. If the size on the website says “M” and all you know is that she is a 6, then see if the site or another apparel site has a size equivalent chart of some kind, so you don’t have to guess. Once you have the right size, you can pick out anything. Whether it is a lacy bustier, or a slinky garterbelt, they will all look perfect on her.

You really don’t have to go into a store at all if you don’t want to. The buying part can be as easy as a few clicks on the internet. All the lingerie names you know have user-friendly websites without all the paranoia of expecting to run into your son’s first grade teacher while you shop. Pick something that you think she would look sexy in, rather than worrying about if it is something she would pick for herself. Remember, that she enjoys dressing sexy for you and wants to turn you on. Picking out a few pieces, whether they are corsets, baby dolls, or nighties, will let her see into your fantasy mind, which is something she really wants to get into. By the way, don’t worry about all the vocabulary of lingerie. Pick something out by the picture and take their suggestions on separately sold accessories. After you present her with your sexy gifts, let her know how much you want to see her in them. She will definitely feel good about your gifts, and so will you.

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